And I really think you shouldn't say something like that.
What do you mean, we can feel the presence of the deceased around us? That as long as we remember them they are still around?
Because I can't feel him. I can't feel him at all, ok? And even if I 'let go of my anxiety' and become cool as a chillin' cucumber, if I still can't 'sense his presence', are you going to take responsibility for my heart, crushed again? Are you? Are you? And how can you? That's right. You can't. You fucking can't. So don't say things like that goddamn it.