It has such a negative ring but what does judgemental mean? 

Does it not mean to look at the evidence and apply critical thinking? Admittedly, there is negative slant to that analysis. 

But it means that I did not accept. It means I have been watching you, breaking down your actions in my mind. Now would you rather stand before me and my judgement or before a marshmallow and its indifference? 

I cannot help that I rip into the world. But I cannot forget what pain feels like, so rest assured. I am not entirely cruel.